Jai Satchitanand friends,
Have you ever adjusted yourself
with the incidents happening in your day-to-day life? We generally
adjust to the weather, environment, and culture. You may also be
taking adjustments with people including your mummy, papa, brother,
sister, and friends, but sometimes we find it difficult to adjust
with some people. What happens if you don't adjust? You get into
conflicts...which brings about suffering and takes away your
Now, let's see what the true
meaning of adjusting is and how valuable it is.
Everyone gets along with easy-going
and good-natured people but when you learn to get along with
difficult, stubborn or harsh personalities, you have truly
accomplished something. No matter how brazen and shameful a person
is, if you know how to adjust without losing your temperament, it
is well worth it. Losing your temper is useless.
Nothing in this world will 'fit'
you. However, if you 'fit' into it, the world will be good. If you
attempt to make it 'fit' you, it will be 'crooked.'
Therefore,adjust everywhere. As long as you 'fit' into it, there
will be no problems.
Dadashri says use this
phrase,"Adjust Everywhere"in your life and peace will take
If you don't learn anything else in
worldly life it doesn't matter but learning to adjust is a
necessity. You will sail through all difficulties in life if you
adjust to anyone who misadjusts with you.
A person who knows how to
adjust with others does not suffer.A person who adjusts everywhere
will never have the thought of "Why so?" or "Why is this happening
Adjusting settles our conflicts
from previous accounts. Conflicts arise due to ignorance and only
occur when our past karmas are ready to give their results. Adjust
with the very person who misadjusts with you.
Whatever you say should be acceptable to other person and if he
doesn't agree with you then it is your fault. Even if your attempt
to adjust fails, adjust again.
Have you sometimes said things that would hurt the other person?
Now, our speech is not under our control. It's also possible that
after saying so, we immediately become aware of our mistake. At
that time, it is necessary to take adjustments and say, "Sorry,
I've spoken badly. It was my mistake. Please forgive me." In this
way, an adjustment has been taken.You can only adjust if you
correct your mistake.The intention is peace and the goal is
Some practical phrases that can help you adjust everywhere
- Mingle with everyone
- Fit in with others, no matter what the situation
- Stay in sync with everybody
This is the key to avoid unhappiness - "Adjust everywhere."
Adjustment with each and every person is the highest